It’s a common story… how many of the following have you heard the voice in your head whispering?
- I’m never going to find anyone better
- She/He is too good for me
- My life is boring compared to theirs
- Girls / Guys never go for me, it’s always my friends
- Why would they be into me
- I’m overweight and out of shape and suck at dieting
Whether you are in a relationship or not, when it comes to life we all get stuck in a rut sometimes. A mental rut that is. One where if we’re honest, we lose a bit of respect for ourselves, our ambitious and adventurous spirit is subdued making way for a safer more comfortable position. Our sense of control – that we own our lives as master of our destiny dissipates in the winds of haziness as we find our-selves bouncing along from one outside influence to another.
We all would like to hear that it’s ok, because here is some quick fix magic bullet for getting you on track in wonderful shape, attractive, determined, and adored by all… well I don’t believe in magic bullets but I do believe you can have the kind of relationship, and lifestyle you choose if you only dare to want it bad enough! At mrnmrsromance.com we take a look at one such person who did make that change and now finds himself with so many options when it comes to the opposite sex he doesn’t know what to do with himself. We hope you listen and take something away that inspires you to make a change, you only live once!
Guest post submitted by Mr & Mrs Romance
