Guest Author: MirandaSantiago has a degree in Psychology from Boston College and is now a freelance writer who covers dating topics, specifically Latin dating. Apart from writing, Miranda enjoys windsurfing, playing the piano and cheering on her favorite baseball teams.
There are many ways to size up your guys, but in my experience boxers say the most about a man. The trick is trying to figure out what kind of underwear he wears before that date when you’ve had one glass of wine too many, things get hot and steamy, and going all the way becomes inevitable. Let’s explore what a man’s underwear says about him.
If he’s not over 50 or under 15, then either his mom is still buying his underwear (and not the type of mama’s boy that you want around) or he is simply uninformed about bedroom fashion. A man in briefs is generally simple and introverted. He’s not one to worry about fashion. In fact, the word “fashion” is probably not in his vocabulary. In a relationship he’s generally more reserved, but knows how to treat a lady—that is, until you get him into bed, and then… well, not so much.
Boxer briefs scream sex appeal! Even if your guy may not seem sexy with clothes on, get him down to these and he’ll have you revisiting that idea. Men who wear boxer briefs tend to be confident and outgoing. They’re also up with trends and take care to impress their lady friends, not only with dress, but with charm. They have a tendency to be more giving under the sheets too. Boxer brief men are more independent, established in school, their careers and life. They’re usually more cultured and come from higher social statuses. In relationships they vary widely from Prince Charmings to womanizers. Deducing which one your beau is will be entirely up to you and him.
When I think of boxers, I get this visual of your everyday Juan. Not driven by fashion trends, but not completely careless either. The everyday man is masculine and comes off as sexy with his “I don’t give a damn” attitude. Men in boxers tend to be chivalrous in relationships, at least in the beginning. They also tend to be outgoing. Chances are though, that he doesn’t put much thought into pleasing his woman sexually.
If your guy wears man-thongs, honey, chances are you’re barking up the wrong tree! Either that, or he’s into some kinky stuff. You’d have to be really open-minded to date a guy who wears these, because he definitely is! A man who wears these is trendy and open to new things. He’s not usually the monogamist, but from time to time, and for the right woman, they can be roped down.
A man who goes commando is either Scottish, or a man’s man. He’s comfortable with his masculinity and enjoys showing off, both in front of and behind the scenes. A man in commando is very sure of himself, which means he’s less likely to screw things up with jealousy and other nasty trust issues.
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